I think my ex is a narcassist
I'm sure my story is like many others I recently ended a 2 1/2 year relationship with a narcissist. I ended the relationship in July after feeling abandoned by this man. A man who claimed to love me, we were even engaged. But in late May early July I hurt my back.... all of sudden, I was useless. He wouldn't help, didn't seem to care about my pain. I continued to work 40 hours a week in horrible pain, his words of encouragement were to tell me to file a fake workman's comp claim and tell them it happened at work. I missed some work hours, before I knew it between doctors bills and lost work I couldn't hardly make ends meet. We didn't live together, so I didn't financially depend on him for anything. When I expressed my difficulties to him, he told me "You said you didn't need any money, I offered to help you weeks ago" then he proceeded to contact another female friend who said she could get me a second job with her. To [sign in to see URL] solved. He didn't check on [sign in to see URL] seemed to be disgusted by my illness. This wasn't the first time he had been cruel when I was sick. So I opted to tell him that he didn't deserve to be with someone who was so week, that I would give him up for his good..... just to get away, or to test what kind of man he really was. He said to me in the calmest voice..... I'll leave it up to you.... I wouldn't want anyone to think I broke up with you because you were sick. I was [sign in to see URL], but I gave him up anyways. The next day I told him, this would be the hardest thing I ever had to do and I cried. .....I didn't hear from him for 4 weeks. He would call, throw things in my face, then be nice again. But it was like a game of cat and [sign in to see URL] time worse because I wasn't begging him to come back. I actually started to fell better, began laughing and talking with friends. Then it happened, his mind games again, texting on and off, nice but then [sign in to see URL] the messages turned sexual.... never saying it was me he missed. He then asked me to be a booty call. I said no, it enraged him. The next day he wanted to let me know he bagged up my clothes and I could come and get them. Since then, even more cruelty. I'm loosing friends, I feel isolated, I'm afraid of my own shadow... all in week... I don't know what happened, I was fine. I went No Contact with him, I'm terrified.