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Re: Always Current Discussions of Different K-Dramas: K-DRAMA VIDEO CLUB!
Ha! Pooka good find on the kate spade bag! I always carry the same little Le Sac with me wherever I go so I would never have caught that! And Addie with your crush on Peen!! He has very expressive eyes doesn't he? I have to admit that I'm a Dong Young fan! After getting to know him (and after watching him for hours and hours I know the dude) I am really liking him and his character. His character is really the ideal man isn't he? Strong, confident, handsome but not too handsome, noble, sweet....sigh.
I just reviewed episodes 22 and 23 (I've been a bad bad girl! I finished episode 27 the other day....I couldn't help it. It was so good and I couldn't stop watching.) I think it's terribly unfair of Dawmy to keep her identity a secret from her poor father. She's so reasonable in every way except in this action. Of course the writers had to do it to keep the plot thick but it's so irritating!
Kang Hee is becoming pathetic. She just won't buck up will she? She absolutely has to go to her mom and make her tell her that she loves her best, not Dawmy. She's just drowning in self-pity poor girl.
I think the scenes where Dawmy finds her identity were very good. So glad it's finally happened! The only weak and exasperating part is where she hides in the trees with DY and doesn't greet her father. Her father doesn't see her or DY (and neither does the maid nor the chauffeur nor the assistant) even though they stick out like red tents on white snow. That happens a lot in Kdrama doesn't it?
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3/23/2006, 3:31 pm
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Gosh if I could get all these people, Kanghee, Dawmy, Mr. Ko, Kanghee's mom to a psychiatrist! One thing about this movie is how everyone gets so twisted trying to fit into society in the 70's. I'm guessing it was pretty conservative back then and that adoption, and orphans, had a bad stigma. I think even now in Korea, especially in the upper classes, an adopted person has lower status. That might explain why this whole thing about being the real or the fake Jun Hee is so important to everyone, especially Jun Hee.
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3/23/2006, 11:10 pm
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That would be so interesting to know, if adoption within the Korean community did have a stigma attached. Buppy, can you ask your Mom if she knows anything about it? It seems like with so much importance placed on family and so much family upheaval during the years of the war, that all families would have members that were tangentially attached - but that blood connection is so important, maybe you wouldn't consider taking a child from outside the family? Perhaps that's why there were so many orphans who came to the US and Australia after the war, and still so many were left in Korean orphanages. There were cases of families being forced by poverty to put some of their children into orphanages just so the children could be fed and clothed. The truly, truly stigmatized orphans were the babies born from liasons between the U.N. forces (mostly American GIs) and Korean girls. They had to be abandoned at orphanages or the girls' families would bear the stigmas forever. The lucky girls left Korea as war brides. (I guess?) That's a whole part of the post-war story that we don't see in F-70s.
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3/24/2006, 7:56 pm
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Yes, bb, I think all of that is implied in the narrative of Fashion 70's. Adoption still has a stigma in Korea because people are so into their bloodlines and other sh*t like that. My Korean teacher says it is especially sad for boys. Girls have a chance of being adopted because they marry into another family eventually; boys are seen as the carriers of a family's bloodline and they are less likely to be adopted as a result. In Korea anything that is different from a nuclear family with two parents who are married to each other is frowned upon-- so a divorced person carries a terrible stigma, especially in the 70's when it was less americanized. I'm not sure what was worse back in those days, to be adopted or to be divorced. Probably, divorced was worse with adoption a close 2nd!
About the children of US soldiers, they really had it bad after the war. They were not allowed to go to school even! My mother says they were universally shunned by Korean society. How heartbreaking is that? Nowadays someone who is half Korean is more accepted in society although I personally have had comments directed at me and my son by Koreans who do not like mixed children. On the other hand, I've also had very nice comments from Koreans who love his handsome features and his amber hair.
I think the other interesting thing I've noticed in Fashion 70's, another implication in the narrative, is the lack of Christian thinking. There's a lot of Christian thinking in American films. For instance, as an American, I can understand a character's motivations in an American film because, even if the character is not Christian, he or she will do a lot of things based on a Judeo-Christian heritage. So, if I watched an american movie where someone is adopted and has an identity crisis you usually don't sense a great deal of shame from the adopted person -- but in Kang Hee's case, you do.
In Fashion 70's and a lot of Korean movies, there's a lot of Confucian thinking. I also notice a lot of talk about next lives, destiny, fate, karma which are illustrative of the Buddhist heritage and values. It's really interesting to me how much of my own values I automatically assume everyone else will have and it's shocking when I realize there are people in the world who are different!
I think the whole Christian, non-Christian discussion applies to adoption to, which is my main point. (Hey, if you're still with me at this point!) Americans have embraced adoption wholeheartedly. I think it has a lot to do with the Judeo-Christian heritage in America. Adoption is not as popular in Korea because Judeo-Christian values are not as strong in Asian countries.
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3/24/2006, 10:26 pm
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Yes, yes, yes, this is so helpful. Thanks, Buppy. And so interesting. The books I read about Korea talk about Confucianism being the foundation of the culture but a few paragraphs from you quickly place it in a perspective that's easy for me to understand. Kang Hee feeling shame didn't occur to me as an American - why would she? but now it makes more sense even why Mr. Ko would have given her JunHee's name and birthdate. And why she is suffering this collapse of spirit from what is happening. In this situation would she be expected to bow to fate/karma or to fight to hold on to whatever she can?
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3/24/2006, 10:45 pm
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