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When excuses were created...men were born. (A Girl's Rant)
Disclaimer: Well first of all you are all allowed to comment over the main topic of this Blog- Like piece and second thanks for spending a lil bit of your time reading this :P lol!
Sorry gents if you feel offended, but if the shoe fits...
When excuses were created...men were born. (A Girl's Rant)
By Sandra Oquendo aka Raven 84
Well I dunno about you people but this is how I feel about a certain aspect in life we call: Slavery aka L-O-V-E people say that love is all about making you whole, about passion, affection, kindness, compassion about that special person wanting to share with you your ups and downs,strings attached, and even when you have to be serious do it with love, powerful bond and what not and yes I have to mention that there are some exceptions in this world that are like Lois Lane and Superman, like Ken and Barbie, or Batman and Robin (lol) etc etc.
But what happen to the rest of us mortals and common folk in this world that are lurking around trying to get their "Lover's" attention and he is simply not on the same page or frequency as you think they used to be? what of the people that think that things are good and well for over a month and boom all of sudden is as cold as Antarctica? and even penguins are affectionate among themselves--- No time, No interest whatsoever and instead of telling you the truth behind their lovely words like
"I need you" or "You are so gorgeous" (and I'm being sarcastic here because I bet they mean "You bore me" and "I think you are the next Ugly Betty")
Making you cling at their words like fish to bait, they don't tell you the truth because they realize that the person they "love" have something they lack of: FEELINGS! (aww how cute!) so they'll just keep the facade up just for a lil bit because they feel sorry.
And let's not mention the "I'll be there soon's" or "It's a date's" or the classic "Be right back" and leave you hanging for almost 2 hours (sigh) and you are like,
"Ok where is he?" Calls messages and guess what? no response...
And when he dignifies to show up guess what comes?! "I'm sorry" and we as idiots as we become when we like or love our men we rant first but eventually we say
"ok hun no worries...but don't do it again"
WHAT A !@$%!! IDIOT! geez lack of courage or anger I dunno and if we count the times this happens again and again we'll be for a super-mega while here--- Yes people those are men and of course as always we have to mention the exceptions...
There are the champions of the world (honorable, responsible, successful, intelligent, divine) but for the rest of us there are the "superhero" kind and you know how that is: Are for and with everybody but not for the girl of the comic (yeah folks sad sad romantic tragedy) hell I believe that's the case of most women around the world: the girl always eager to please, to mend things, make things better and trying to be heard and to be interesting and our "superheroes" are somewhere crawling the walls, flying around, and responding to bat signals...
And because of that lack of interest excuses are made! God knows I hate the person that first said "Better apologize than ask permission" or something like that I honestly don't care the real version of the phrase but you get it I hope he/she rottens in hell just for that perilous phrase! And I'm not saying they have to ask for permission-- no, no, no! dont get me wrong.
In my case I'm not a control freak like some may think I am--- I just think considerations should be take in order sometime you know since we women and we do this because our "housewife training" made us this way we say where we are and what we will be doing; nothing to hide, no need to lie so we kind of like to know about our men (if they are ours in the first place) --- not all the time but knowing he's ok and chilling but at the same time thinking about us and caring about us is a gratifying feeling.
We have commitment but of course with the exception of the so called "rotten apples" and that even is kinda relative--- call it analysis of the situation... But that's another rant...
Do men misunderstand that for psychotic? clingy? needy? jealous? insecure? maybe, depending the level of course but some of that "freakiness" men created on us too and is because of square one: Lack of Interest and Excuses... making us start considering hypothesis, theories and what if's.
What do women want men wonder? Simple---the same thing that everybody says about L-O-V-E YOU IDIOTS!
Is that too much to ask? I mean seriously....
Copyright © Sandra Oquendo
Post Edited By Raven 84, Dec/20/2007, 6:22 am
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