a2j
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have a ? for everyone
i have a friend "masha" and she really likes this guy but his of a diffrent race and so her parents dont approve at all and wont allow her to date him but she keeps talking to him and kissing him and stuff and now he has got her a promise ring i am the only friend she has told about him and so she asked me the other day what i thought and idk what to tell her she i advise against it or support the relationship even though its behind her parents back and against what they say btw im 18 and shes 17 and his like 14 or 15
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5/11/2007, 9:34 am
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Re: have a ? for everyone
Well, of course, she needs to talk to her parents about it. She's going to have to take it up with God...as to whether or not they should continue seeing each other if her parents still disapprove. Of course, the racial issues, are no problem in my opinion. I'm dating an asian guy, so obviously I don't mind, but their age difference also concerns me. Especially, when she's older than him. Does she really think she can promise her life to him, when a) he's going to be in school a year or two longer than she is? and b) college guys are going to start looking great, when her guy is still finishing high school. So...I don't know. Red flags are going up all over about their relationship. Just my feelings though.
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5/16/2007, 12:45 am
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yeah red flags poped up with me too and now sence ive posted this thread i think and hope they are starting to pop up with her too just please keep her in your prayers thank you soo much
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5/16/2007, 7:25 pm
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I'll definitely pray for her. 
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5/16/2007, 9:44 pm
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the age difference...not so good. I know ALOT of 14 year old guys and I haven't found any that seem anywhere near mature enough to make that much of a devotion. Not saying it's not possible but I personally wouldn't think that would be the best choice. He's just started H.S. and she'll be in college soon. My aunt got married to a guy 3 or 4 years younger than her and thier marriage sucks. So they should think EVERY POSSIBLE thing. A lot can happen in those few years.
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I'll be praying for them too.
-Alyssa
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Being filled in the depths of your soul is only about the love of God... knowing Him... hearing His voice... believing that He's wild about you... dancing in His arms. -Angela Thomas
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