LaLa Land
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Re: "How to Fall out of Love."
Hi cut2thecore ... Great insight.
I am so SICK of thinking about my X and our situation. I am so SICK of missing the false him. I am so SICK of being lonely. I am so SICK of HIM. It's like he has invaded me mind and body and I can't get rid of him. I can't take it anymore - I want him OUT OUT OUT !!!
I am going to try your suggestions. I want my WHOLE life back! Thanks 
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Dec/11/2008, 10:11 pm
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cut2thecore
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Re: "How to Fall out of Love."
Thank you, LaLa Land.
I totally understand how you feel. I've given 2 years of my life to this man and I'm not willing to give up anymore of me for HIM!
I'm SICK SICK SICK of thinking about it---trying to figure it out---trying to learn about his disease... so that maybe I can try to find a peaceful way to get along with him.
I find changing who I am to please him---has only made me lose who I am within myself. I've become so hidden inside and he has stifled my personality and emotions so much that I don't even know who I am anymore. I want the old me back---the pre "N" ME! I see glimpes of "me" every now and then. I'll feel "happy" for a nanosecond...and then as soon as I think about "HIM" ...it's gone!
Another article that I really liked reading was:
http://narcissismfree.com/art_aftermath-of-abuse.php
We'll get thru this! I believe that staying No Contact along with retraining our thought processes is key!
Cheers to brighter days!
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Dec/11/2008, 11:09 pm
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