MAC2005
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How can I tell if he is done with me
I met my N in meetings. He stared non stop for about two months. He eventaully got to three meetings of staring a week. If someone sat in front of them he would move his chair to stare. I started moving my seat. He then would come into meetings late so he could it where I was in view. I was seriously creeped out. Who stares at someone for 1.5 hours three times a week. He learned I was seperated from my husband, which was my mistake I shared it in a meeting. Afterward he stood against a wall and stared at me like a cat who got the canary. Prior to that he was always circling me. After that he came at me directly. Then when I tried to leave the meeting he blocked my way. He only let me by after I was stopped and forced to listen to his sweet compliments. Using words like beautiful. He was so charming. He did many covert things. Other people did not seem to see them. They said he was a nice guy, always helping, always nice. I gave him my phone number, his response was he never called. He increased his stalking type behavior. To me this seemed starnge for such a rebel. He had his friends ask me questions. One friend took photos of me in a meeting. He was constantly using my name. I sent him a txt message and he responded by waiting for me, I blew him off something did not seem right. I thought his behavior and words did not match. I should have gone with my gut. He always looked like he was coming in for the kill to me. I began to ignore him. He got more agressive with his attentions towards me. He dumped the girl on the side right in front of me. She fell apart. Then he dumped the girlfirend, then he took his new victim out in front of the girl on the side and watched her crumble. While this is going on staring at me. I continued to ignore him. He kept trying to talk to me. I kept walking. He then brought his latest victim to a meeting I was in.I was leaving and he was still trying to talk to me with his arm around her. After that I never went back to that meeting or any other he was in. I found out he was telling people things about me that were untrue. It has been a few weeks of no contact. I was in therapy when this started. Everything about this guy was sexual. There was an energy, the way he sat with his legs open to me. He seemed to enjoy harming me but I got a real sense he was not yet done with me. I have stayed away and it has been hard, I would liek to tell him off. I felt like he had the ability to pull me in. One conversation I had he eneded up getting a bunch of personal information about me. I did not realize what i had told him until afterwards. He never called in the months he tormented me. He only got in one inapproiate hug. He tried many times to touch me. My therapist and friends told me he was not done and to get away from him. Since I have stayed away for a few weeks and he has not seen me does that mean he is done with me?
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Oct/20/2009, 10:32 am
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