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Book Recommendations
Recommended Books
Arranged Alphabetically by book title.
Recommendations have come from our members.
Members are invited to add on to this thread with their own recommendations.
"Any reviewer who expresses rage and loathing for a novel is preposterous.
He or she is like a person who has put on full armor and
attacked a hot fudge sundae."
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Amazon
http://www.amazon.com/
Barnes and Noble
http://www.barnesandnoble.com/
A Dance with the Devil by Barbara Bentley
All About Me (Narcissism) By Crompton.
Antisocial Behavior: Personality Disorders from Hostility to Homicide By Benjamin B Wolman.
Antisocial behavior in society--causes, history, what we can do about it.
Bad Boys, Bad Men: Confronting Antisocial Personality Disorder By Donald W Black.
Bully at Work By Gary Namie.
Children of the Self Absorbed (& her other books) By Nina W. Brown.
Co-dependent No More (& her other books) By Melody Beattie.
Coping with Infuriating, Mean, Critical People: The Destructive Narcissistic Pattern By Dr. Nina W. Brown.
Disarming the Narcissist: Surviving & Thriving With the Self-Absorbed By Wendy Behary.
Emotional Blackmail - When the People in Your Life use Fear, Obligation and Guilt to Manipulate You By Dr. Susan Forward.
Enough About You, Let's Talk About Me: How to Recognize and Manage the Narcissists in Your Life By Les Carter.
It's All Your Fault!, 12 Tips For Managing People Who Blame Others For Everything by Bill Eddy (author of Divorcing the N or BPD.)
How to Break Up with a Dangerous Man By Sandra Brown MA.
How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved By Brown.
How to Talk to a Narcissist By Joan Lachkar.
In Sheeps Clothing - Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People By George K. Simon.
In the Name of Love - Abusive and Controlling Relationships (DVD format) By Rick Ross.
DVD Format excellent teaching medium
http://www.rickross.com/dvds/dvd.html
Inside the criminal mind By Stanton E. Samenow
It's My Life Now - Starting Over After an Abusive Relationship or Domestic Violence By Dugan/Hock.
Just Like His Father? By Dr. Liane J. Leedom.
Look Me In The Eye By Caryl
Loving Someone with Bipolar Disorder By Julie A. Fast.
Loving the Self-Absorbed: How to Create a More Satisfying Relationship with a Narcissistic Partner By Nina W. Brown.
Malignant Self Love Narcissism Revisited By Dr. Sam Vaknin
Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them By Susan Forward
Why Loving Hurts and You Don't Know Why
Narcissism in the Workplace By Ritala/Falkowski.
Narcissistic Lovers - How to Cope, Recover and Move On By Zayn and Dibble.
Narcissistic Wounds: Clinical Perspectives
By by Judy Cooper
Nasty People - How to Stop Being Hurt Without Sinking to Their Level By Jay Carter.
OBSESSIVE LOVE - When It Hurts too Much to Let Go By Dr. Susan Forward.
People of the Lie By M. Scott Peck.
Psychopaths in Suite - When Psychopaths Go to Work By Babiak/Hare.
SPLITTING: Protecting yourself While Divorcing a Borderline or Narcissist By William A Eddy.
A must read for anyone going through a divorce. You will have to share this one with your lawyer.
http://www.bpdcentral.com/bks/spy.shtml
Stalking the Soul By Marie-France Hirigoyen.
Stop Walking on Eggshells By Mason/Kreger.
Tears and Healing By Richard 21CP.
The Batterer: A Psychological Profile By Donald Dutton.
The Dandelion Spirit By M.L. Gallagher (Our member: Ellie).
http://www.dandelionspirit.com/
The Disease to Please, Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome Harriet B. Braiker, Ph.D.
The Emotionally Ausive Relationship By Beverly Engel
The Emotionally Abused Women, Overcoming Destructive Patterns and Reclaiming Yourself
By Beverley Engel
The Jekyll and Hyde Syndrome by Beverly Engel
The Sociopath Next Door By Martha Stout.
The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond By Patricia Evans.
The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists By Payson.
Time to break free By Judith R. Smith.
When Dad Hurts Mom By Lundy Bancroft.
When He's Only Into Himself By Ella Scott.
When Your Perfect Partner Goes Perfectly Wrong
By Mary Jo Faye.
Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men By Lundy Bancroft.
Why Is it Always About You? Saving Yourself From the Narcissist in Your LIfe By Hotchkiss.
Without Conscience, The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us By Dr. Robert Hare.
Women Who Love Too Much by Robin Norwood
Women Who Love Psychopaths By Brown/Leedom
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Re: Books Recommended by Members
Without Conscience, by Robert D. Hare.
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Nov/16/2008, 3:41 pm
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Re: Books Recommended by Members
Mentioned by Barbarawrites - a member of our forum.
A DANCE WITH THE DEVIL:
A TRUE STORY OF MARRIAGE TO A PSYCHOPATH and
http://www.adancewiththedevil.com
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Children? They don't want presents, they just want to see your face light up when they come in the room.
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Nov/20/2008, 3:48 pm
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Re: Book Recommendations
No visible wounds, by Mary Susan Miller
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Don't let a man put anything over on you except an umbrella.
-- Mae West
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Apr/16/2009, 1:37 pm
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Re: Book Recommendations
"Too Soon Old, Too Late Smart' - 30 things you need to know now
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Dr. Gordon Livingston
Also by Dr. Livingston:
"How to Love"
(Just released 05/09)
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"Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering."
Carl Jung
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May/24/2009, 9:02 am
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Re: Book Recommendations
I didn't notice these two AMAZING books if you want to know what part YOU played in the "dance". These will help open your eyes and hopefully help you protect yourself from making conditioned choices thanks to past exploitive relationships that lead us here.
Anyone with a N parent is at risk for having a dysfunctional relationship with a N.
Loving a Narcissists can be cyclical and until we learn why we do and what the roots are to choosing them we are vulnerable to them.
Here's to BREAKING CYCLES!
Help! I'm in love with a Narcissist!
By Steven Carter
http://www.amazon.com/Help-Love-Narcissist-Steven-Carter/dp/1590770773
The Betrayal Bond
By: Patrick Carnes
http://www.amazon.com/Betrayal-Bond-Breaking-Exploitive-Relationships/dp/1558745262
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Re: Book Recommendations
Why is it always about you? <br>
Snakes in suits: when psychopaths go to work <br>
Help! I am in love with a narcissist! <br>
The emptied soul: on the nature of narcissism <br>
In sheep's clothing: understanding and dealing with manipulative people <br>
Will I ever be good enough? Healing the daughter's of narcissistic mothers.
Children of the self absorbed
The Wizard of Oz and other narcissists
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http://holywatersalt.blogspot.com
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