"When divorce is unavoidable, prepare to play one of the most vicious, unfair, hardball games in American culture. Your preparation...is critical."
DIVORCE - The Real Truth, The Hidden Dangers Surviving Deception, Betrayal and Narcissism
Ann Bradley, M.A.
http://www.narcissisticabuse.com/divorcebook.html _________________
Custody Hint: Notify your X and his lawyer you intend to record all phone conversations and contact.
quote:
“One of the important lessons I learned is that it isn't necessary to answer all questions or defend yourself against stupid comments, remarks and accusations. One of the best ways to disarm someone who is being offensive is to respond by saying "I am sorry you feel that way!" It really catches them off guard.”
Dr. Reena Sommer
"Evaluators don't appreciate when a parent spends much of his/her time badmouthing the other parent. I can tell you that from personal experience. And it is really obvious when people do so and it shows that they have an agenda."
Dr. Reena Sommer
"If you want to have a hope in hell of winning this, stop thinking like a victim and start thinking like the police, lawyers, courts, therapists and child therapists."
member quote
"He who angers you, controls you."
E. Kenney, Australian Nurse
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We encourage all members to learn as much as you can about N/P disorder. There are many sections with information on the home page dedicated to this purpose. We will feature a specific section on the side links from time to time. Currently, the links to the individual pages in our "Survival Skills" section are provided here for your convenience.
