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dogwhisper
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No I really do have a brain...


Hello to everyone, I feel like i know each and everyone of you from the posts from the past year or so.
This is my story, sit down, make a drink, get a nice glass of red wine because this is one story that you will only find a Jerry Springer show.
Here goes...Married to a N for 27 years, three great kids, supported Him while He climbed the corporate ladder. Come to find out New Years eve 2007 He dropped the BOMB.
Phone call at 6:00 crying I have made a terrible mistake, I just need to get out of it. Well the MISTAKE was He had a mistress for half of our married life and He was at the hospital, couldn't come home, She just gave birth to his baby. But He had a vasectomy years ago!But guess what with modern medicine He was able to give her His swimmers. Long story short, begged Me not to throw Him out, sent our Oldest Son to pick His mother up off of the floor, you see He runs when things get too bad. Just couldn't deal with it.
Begged Me not to divorce Him but in the mean time He was living with Her.
You see N's talk out of both sides of their mouth! Rest of the story, had to spend a week in Saint Johns because our oldest son was getting married. It was the hardest thing I have ever done and a major cloud was over our heads most of the weekend. Tried to get Me do sleep with Him but nooooooo way. And most of the week He would have licked the floor if I asked Him to. But my dear lord gave me the strenght to do it for my son.
I had a really good lawyer and got him to agree to just about everything because he didn't think I would really go thru with it. You see my N treats ALL women like they are stupid and can't do anything for themselves.
Boy this feels so good!!!! There is so much more but I will leave that for another time.
I have been nc for three months now moved 300 miles away and it was the best thing I ever have done...
I would love some feedback...Blessings to all dog...
May/23/2009, 11:06 am  
 


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