whitebutterfly
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Does Ns know what they have done?
Hi Sam,
I want to say your tv show was great, really helpful and interesting!
I just wonder does Ns know what they are doing to their spouses/girlfriends? My exN gave me the silent treatment for weeks and made up untrue stories to blame me with, I guess he did it to get distant from me. Many times I wonder if he knows what he has done, that really deep inside he knows it?
And another thing, my N did for a while say over msn he should kill me, showed me a pic how I would end up if I didn´t do what he said. The pic was not of humans or violence, but it showed me I would get my throat cut over. He also came with the big kitchen knife up in the web camera when chatting. When I did visit him in Finland before this happened he thought he was funny acting like he should hit me in the head with a chair. But the whole time in Finland he was such a gentleman too. I think he did this thing over msn to try in a silly way to scare me from a distant since he lives in another country. I got confused how he changed personality so fast, after I came back to my country. Can an N just say like this thinking he is funny, for fun? He said that time he wanted to decide over my life, because he did, because he could. Or does it mean there was more behind these words of him, that he is more than an N? could he be a psychopath or was he just silly?
WB
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Oct/11/2009, 9:01 am
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samvaknin
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Re: Does Ns know what they have done?
Thank you for your kind words, WB.
These may be of help:
Self Awareness and Healing
http://samvak.tripod.com/narcissismselfawareness.html
http://samvak.tripod.com/faq49.html
Guilt? What guilt?
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4931
Projection and Projective Identification - Abuser in Denial
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/5002
Approach-Avoidance Repetition Complex and Fear of Intimacy
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/5000
The Narcissist or Psychopath Hates your Independence and Personal Autonomy
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4959
Violent, Vindictive, Sadistic, and Psychopathic Narcissists
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4938
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Copy-paste these links:
Encyclopedia of Narcissism and Psychopathy
http://samvak.tripod.com/siteindex.html
Buy 9 books about narcissists, psychopaths, and abusive relationships
http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html
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Oct/14/2009, 11:49 am
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whitebutterfly
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Re: Does Ns know what they have done?
Thank you for the links, Sam! 
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Oct/14/2009, 3:45 pm
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