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Brie3
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Why do N's not pay their bills



I am new to this site and I need help and encouragement.I have been married to N for 5 years.I gradually began to realize that I pay for mostly everything in this relationship.I also noticed how he had poor financial management skills.We moved into a new house and he shoves most of the responsibility on me.I had to argue and fight to get him to pay some of the bills.After doing some research,I discovered that he is a N.He fits all of the characteristics.I want to leave but feel stuck.Do you think he'll change or should I give up. emoticon
Oct/13/2009, 7:04 pm  
 
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Narcissists are exploitative, unstable and irresponsible. Read these:

Exploitation by a Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq10.html

Responsibility and Other Matters - Is the Narcissist Responsible for His Actions? Should the Narcissist Be Held Accountable?

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq13.html

The Accountable Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq71.html

The Unstable Narcissist

http://samvak.tripod.com/faq32.html

Guilt? What guilt?

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4931

Narcissists and Mood Disorders

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/5067

Does the Narcissist Have a Multiple Personality (Dissociative Identity
Disorder)?

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4950

Narcissists as Drama Queens

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/narcissisticabuse/message/4948

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Encyclopedia of Narcissism and Psychopathy

http://samvak.tripod.com/siteindex.html

Buy 9 books about narcissists, psychopaths, and abusive relationships

http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html
Oct/14/2009, 11:55 am  
 


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