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I can't live with my sister. can't kick her out of the house
My sister returned home after being gone for 45 years, she no other place to go. I know now the phrase "that is just the way she is" or "that is just her personality" isn't the problem. She is an N. She has been living in my home (formally my mother's, she is deceased) for 15 years. Times have been rough but now for the last about 4 years she has stolen all my savings, borrowed from my friends and ran up credit card bills to $50,000.00. We both get Social security but for these last four years she has done nothing to help me with the up keep of the house. She sends all her money to the scam artists that promise her millions of dollars if she just sends a few hundred. I have done every thing I can think of to stop her from sending all her money monthly but she won't stop. I thought I had made head way only to find out, NO. In order to get power of attorney I have to prove she is mentally incapable which she can lie her way through. I have threatened to move her out but she knows me well enough she doesn't think I will. At the same time, I am somewhat scared of what she might do to me or my home. I know there is no answer except through God but I just needed to say this, I guess. I guess I want some one to have some compassion for all I am dealing with. She was on a "I'm going to kill my self" ranting and raving until I just couldn't take it anymore and lost my temper. I screamed and told her a bunch of things that didn't need to said. In the end, she called the police and convinced them that I was the one trying to kill my self and they put me in a 'looney bin' for several days until the truth was layed out for them. Some one that hasn't been here as I am at first can't believe it but now all my friends know what she is doing and stay away. I had to tell them so they wouldn't give her money. I can't even tell you how bad it is when you have to face someone that has given her money and tell them the truth. Thank goodness I do have a friend. that I have left my life insurance to to repay him, that has advanced me some money to live on. I am trying to work but at 71 I am just not as strong as I once was and it is hard, all the time she does nothing but send money to 'those con
artists. Is there any way out for me anywhere? I try real hard to stay above it all but the weights do drag me down after a time. By the way, she is 77 and we have no children, just x=husbands, and no other living relatives. I can't just kick her out into the street but I have to have some peace of mind and happiness, don't I? Any advice would be appreciated.
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Mar/20/2009, 2:37 am
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Re: I can't live with my sister. can't kick her out of the house
Hi. Whose house is it?
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Children? They don't want presents, they just want to see your face light up when they come in the room.
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Mar/26/2009, 3:09 pm
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