Daffodil66
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For DeMarie
Hi DeMarie
Haven't seen you on the boards in a while. I hope all is ok with you.
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Aug/8/2009, 1:46 pm
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DeMarie57
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Thanks for asking, Daffodil!
I am doing well. The Nsis is steadily trying to provoke me using any means possible.
A couple of cousins and I are organizing a family reunion next month. Two Facebook groups I created focus on connecting with the maternal and paternal sides of our families. Since I have Nsis blocked, she can not see the groups or me on FB. HOWEVER, she is hearing about what's going on from other family members.
I was hesitant to do this when the conversations started. Then decided that since I will only be in town during the day of the reunion and will be surrounded by people the entire day she will be on her best behavior...if she decides to attend. I'm certain she will attend...but won't be heartbroken if she doesn't! LOL
I'm not in hiding anymore. I'm getting my life back and enjoying it immensely.
I hope your life is going well!
DeMarie
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Aug/21/2009, 2:33 pm
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Daffodil66
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Hi DeMarie
Glad to hear all is going ok for you. These N's are mighty trying! I hope the reunion works out alright.
Things for me have been up and down....my N sibling is causing mayhem again! But I'm getting through it ok.
Take care and enjoy the fun of the reunion, whatever you do, don't let the N provoke you! Boy, they will try anything.
Daffodil
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Aug/26/2009, 2:39 pm
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Good morning, Daffodil!
So sorry your N is acting up! You will survive! Stay focused on the good in your life and in your soul.
I keep thinking of the waste of our time and energy these people and their antics cause. It's still foreign to me to have to be cautious in choosing who I will be open to and with whom I should be guarded. It is different with strangers...you expect to be reserved and allow things to progress...but this is family. To move backward from seemingly trusting relationships to strangers is disconcerting...to say the least! LOL
The reunion is progressing at an alarming pace. It's hard to contain my excitement!
Stay strong, Daffodil! We will get through this together.
Hugs,
DeMarie
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Aug/27/2009, 8:02 am
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Daffodil66
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Hi DeMarie
Thanks so much for your support. I'm getting on ok this week. Things have been up and down and the campaign against me is hot and heavy at the moment.....but I'm staying strong!!!! Somehow, it's getting slightly easier to deal with, perhaps it's because of the support on this board and all of the wonderful strategies for dealing with an N. I just can't believe how well they work!!!
I'll stick with it, hope you can too.
Daffodil
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Aug/30/2009, 8:42 am
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Daffodil,
Yes, the strategies do work. What has helped me the most is the knowledge that I am not alone in this insane, upside down world with the narcissists in my life.
I'm sorry you are in the N's sights again. Does yours have periods of calm between attacks? Mine doesn't. She is constantly searching for ways to disrupt my life. She's like a lion waiting for an opening. Once she finds one she is relentless in her assault. She can keep several campaigns (love that word!) going at once. All the while maintaining her public persona of calm and caring.
You are in my thoughts and prayers, Daffodil. We will make it thru!
DeMarie
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