DeMarie57
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Daffodil
Daffodil,
I hope you are well and that the Nsibling isn't getting to you. Keep your focus on the important people and activities in your life. Know you aren't alone.
DeMarie
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Sep/7/2009, 9:36 am
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Daffodil66
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De Marie
You are so kind. Things are not too bad at the moment thanks. The N must have someone else in sight!!!! I've had no contact recently and it's been great. I'm keeping calm and so cold.....that's how I'm described anyway!!! So I'm sticking with the strategies.....the N is raging!!!! Unfortunately the N must have other targets at the moment! I'm sure I'll get more soon.....but guess what, the N is working so hard recently that the red flags are flying high and I'm beginning to think that others are noticing the behaviour......which is getting so predictable and really nasty.
I'm staying strong.....at the moment anyway. Your support is so valued and welcome, along with all the other wonderful people on this board. I'd be lost without it.
I'm hoping things are ok for you DeMarie at the moment too. Take care and thanks for being so thoughtful, it really means a lot to me.
Daffodil
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Sep/7/2009, 2:09 pm
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Oh Daffodil!
You cold??? I love it! That shows that what you are doing is working! I know No Contact is for us but there is some satisfaction in knowing that it causes our tormentors discomfort.
It is sad that while they are leaving us alone, someone else is being targeted.
The Nsis never truly leaves me alone. She is always simmering, waiting for an opening. Also, she can keep several attacks going at once without breaking a sweat. Fortunately, she follows the same script with all of her attacks. As you pointed out, the more active she becomes the more others notice...at least I hope they are noticing for their own safety.
The support found here is awesome. Each time I come here I find something new to bolster me.
Have a wonderful day!
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DeMarie
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Sep/9/2009, 11:24 am
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Daffodil66
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Thanks De Marie, what's the news on your reunion? My N is quiet at the moment, but its making me uneasy.....must be a big hit coming my way!
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Sep/24/2009, 4:10 pm
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The reunion went very well...thanks for asking!
We had a huge crowd and a lot of love. Nsis sat in a corner and watched with a sullen face. She had already done her smear campaign with one cousin and attempted with an aunt. The aunt made a point to hug me and tell me 1) she was proud of me and 2) she loved me. Other relatives were equally positive, supportive and appreciative.
By the next day, she and sister-in-law had cooked up a plan to take over the organization of next year's reunion. The attempt was headed off by the cousins on the organizing committee, all of whom have had unpleasant experiences with Nsis and sister-in-law. This isn't over, I'm sure. Like you, I'm uneasy.
It's almost easier to be in the middle of the battle than to be in the calm before the storm! Hang in there, Daffodil!
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