Change9
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They have no emotions.
One thing I hate about N husband the most.
Never has cried in 14 years Ive known him.
Everything is fake.
Mother has never cried in 40 years of my life except ONE time, when she was trying to manipulate father, who threatened to leave.
N grandmother never cried.
STone cold icicles. Sometimes even as a kid I would watch TV, and think why are those people hugging, crying, what is that stuff?
Im serious
These were all the emotions I got slapped for.
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May/25/2009, 7:24 am
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Re: They have no emotions.
I'm sorry that happened to you.
To hell with their N repression when the party is not about them. And the truth shows up eventually anyway. You grow ugly when you don't smile. N grandmother had the deepest frown lines going down the sides of her mouth. Never gave those face muscles for smiley emotions a workout.
It's hard to let it out- it's taken me years. Still hard. Takes some conscious work. Hugging, laughing out loud, a good cry.
(((Here goes...a hug to you, Change))))
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May/25/2009, 6:33 pm
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Thanks spaceflower.
Yeah as they get old there is lines. My sister looks 100 years old compared to me.
and she is year younger.
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Jun/16/2009, 7:53 am
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Re: They have no emotions.
Change,
((((((((((hugs)))))))))
They do have emotions and feelings, they just bury them.
They are afraid of emotions and feelings cause way back when their were hurt, they were betrayed by those who were supposed to love them.
They also use others to act out their emotions and feelings. Ever have your buttons pushed by your XN or your N mother..how does it make you feel?
You want to scream bloody hell I bet...well that is really them getting you to act out their anger...it is Passaive Aggressive and it works.
Your sisters aging is a sign of abuse by N's, it is her taking on what the N's really feel about themselves.
I know I have all sorts of auto immune diseaes, acid reflux, IBS...the list goes on and on, all from trauma...Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
((((((((((((hugs))))))))))
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If anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town. Matthew 10:14
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Jun/20/2009, 7:23 pm
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Re: They have no emotions.
I think how they were treated is the way they treat you, you either have to keep fighting with them and get hurt,treat them the same and play their game, or go NC.
I choose NC, don't like drama, don't like games.
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Jun/20/2009, 10:35 pm
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Change9
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Re: They have no emotions.
quote:
spaceflower wrote:
I'm sorry that happened to you.
To hell with their N repression when the party is not about them. And the truth shows up eventually anyway. You grow ugly when you don't smile. N grandmother had the deepest frown lines going down the sides of her mouth. Never gave those face muscles for smiley emotions a workout.
It's hard to let it out- it's taken me years. Still hard. Takes some conscious work. Hugging, laughing out loud, a good cry.
(((Here goes...a hug to you, Change))))
I think acouple of these relatives may be psychopaths.
I have Aspergers and I show A LOT more emotion.
They are NOT aspie, I have nephew who is more severe then me, they arent like that.
N repression makes me sick, cold a@@ icicles.
I saw some pictures of mother brother put up on Facebook, she told him to take it down, wish I had saved it, she was literally glaring at his girlfriend behind her back.
She smiled when she knew the camera was on her.
Onme thing I discovered about mother is she would smile, act nice to me when stepfather in room, and even apologized because he is definitely reading emails.
They are evil. I even think that from a christian perspective that mother is evil.
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Jul/10/2009, 7:57 am
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I guess they do bury the emotions butterfly, but really with mother, and husband, I told a friend this last night on phone and it flipped her out, they have both NEVER CRIED,FOR REAL and never shown the emotion of fear, even when in danger.
Maybe I am dealing with a step above N, here, but neither have broken the law, well they have both skirted edges of it...and mother did stealing my credit card and he did with domestic abuse, but you know what I mean, no prison history, etc.
I suppose the early betrayal, him with shchzophrenic mother, and her with her N mother and abusive father, probably triggered all this.
I suppose I can feel sorry for both of them in the human potential and more that was ruined.
I have severe autoimmune problems too, that is the base of my hormonal problems you know as well as Menire's.
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Jul/10/2009, 8:17 am
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quote:
OVERIT09 wrote:
I think how they were treated is the way they treat you, you either have to keep fighting with them and get hurt,treat them the same and play their game, or go NC.
I choose NC, don't like drama, don't like games.
NC is easy for me.
They keep me very far away and have as little to do with me as possible.
Polite phone calls is it, I dont go to her house anymore, that is for sure.
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Jul/10/2009, 8:18 am
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