topaz123
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The Wheel Came Off For P
The wheel has come off for P daughter. She has been betrayed, is hurt and has been totally isolated by N/P who plays this deadly game better than she can.
Someone has done to her a small percentage of the things she has done to me over the years.
She has been used and manipulated ......all her own doing.
What goes around, comes around?...I knew it would eventually come for her, knew she couldn't live her life full of the lies and deceit and just destroying all in her path forever, so now it all fell down round her ears and she doesn't know who she can trust(that includes herself) or who she can turn to..she burned all her bridges with everybody and there doesn't seem a new victim in sight.
She is totally alone, the worst punishment for a P.
There is no pleasure in being proved right. It doesn't matter about all the pain she has caused me in the past, there is no satisfaction whatsoever in knowing she is in such pain just now. In spite of everything that she has done, it still hurts me to know.
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May/6/2009, 5:06 am
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mariemarie
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Re: The Wheel Came Off For P
Topaz,
I'm so sorry to hear this. It's terrible that we can't do anything for them unless they decide to help themselves. I hope that maybe she will seek some help while she's feeling alone, even though I know it's not likely. It is just such a shame to see our relatively young adult children miss opportunities to try to heal as best they can from thier disorders. I can just hear the blaming a few decades in the future - "Why didn't you do something to help me?" I, for one, hate feeling so helpless.
I've been reading the book Evil Genes, and wondering if many of the Ns in our lives don't have some borderline personality disorder issues as well as narcissistic ones. The author gives some insight into the neurological reasons behind the out-of-proportion emotional responses that I've seen in my daughter.
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May/6/2009, 9:06 am
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Re: The Wheel Came Off For P
Exactly the same thing is happening to my 45 year old daughter, deborah. After years and years of abusing me and her poor long suffering husband,{they have been separated now for 3 years}, all the bad karma is boomeranging back on her. Losing job after job,then last January an old lady smashed into debs car, Deb had let her car insurance lapse by one month, altho it was the old ladys fault, she was going to sue my daughter. Old lady wound up in hospital, then died. {In a way, this sad event actually helped deb, as the poice soon dropped the charges.} Then she lost her xmas bonus, ccouldnt pay the rent,{no prizes for guessing who baled her out!}
Started a new job, which lasted 4 months. Now shes freelancing. Most if not all of her friends have deserted her as they got tired of being used and then dumped. the sad thing is, I still feel sorry for her, but I have to learn to say "No". I need my pension for myself. She will bleed me dry, if I let her, and practically has already.
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May/29/2009, 4:42 am
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BendsWithWind
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 Re: The Wheel Came Off For P
I have a 54 yr old daughter that has basicaly ruined my life. Two 30 yr old grandchildren that won't speak to me. A great grand child I will never see.
She has never suffered a thing in her life.
I hate to say it but I really would like to see her brought down if only once.
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Jun/9/2009, 3:32 pm
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