mobo123
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Anyone's NSTBX do this?
Make references to having sex, asking for sympathy sex, and making attraction references directly toward you?
He always does it after a heated email exchange about our custody battle or divorce. Like...Is sympathy sex out of the question?
Its like a shock value thing...but its really starting to creep me out!
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Oct/8/2009, 1:42 pm
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MommaHorse1
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
As mine always told me, sex was the only way he could define himself as a man. Oh Yeah what a man
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Oct/8/2009, 7:21 pm
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justmenmydogsnow
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
Mine used to do this after he moved out, but before I filed for divorce. It's another attempt to manipulate (in addition to getting what he wants: control, sex, power).
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Oct/10/2009, 11:54 am
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
Stbxnh had his new supply all lined up. Once he knew I'd finally caught him and wouldn't back down, I was ancient history. It's actually a relief to not have to deal with his sexual neurosis. I do have to say that sometimes I still feel a twinge of "wanting to protect him" when the pharmacy calls unexpectedly looking for him to tell him his Viagra Rx is in. But not right now. 
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Oct/10/2009, 12:03 pm
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mariemarie
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
Yes, after not lifting one finger to help me pack or move the things I took when leaving the family home (I couldn't afford the mortgage on my own), the night before I left he asked me to sleep with him "one last time." Ugh - wish I could erase that memory. I want to take a shower just remembering even thinking of the prospect and seeing his face, actually expecting that I might say yes! UGH! Especially knowing about how he smeared me to everyone we knew, probably starting way before then . . .
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Oct/13/2009, 9:55 pm
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mobo123
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
Bellvireo, I am LMAO at the Viagra. Mine never had "much" to speak of anyway and was on prostate pills because he wet the bed...SERIOUSLY! He has a girl that has been posting messages like they are dating on his Facebook. Every once in a while I have to fight the urge to send her a message telling her to buy a mattress cover..LOL!
When I picked up my son last night he asked AGAIN if I would ever sleep with him again, and then sent me an email with a Fox News report on Sympathy Sex! I did finally tell him that it would never happen, especially after he trashed me all over town with lies about me cheating. Sorry Bout Your Bad Luck!!
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Oct/14/2009, 9:03 am
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Re: Anyone's NSTBX do this?
 Good for you Mobo
Keep those boundaries in place. I wouldn't bother telling NW anything, if she is real she will find out soon enough.
Stay Safe FM
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Oct/14/2009, 8:43 pm
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