Re: Chain of Love for Sneaky Hello everyone...thanks so much for my continued support. Im finally finished with all chemo and radiation ...yay! But now im suffering through a serious family crisis(Hubby left me..couldn't take anymore) Im really upset and depressed so it may take a bit longer for me to start getting around the boards again.
My next serious surgery is June 4th and im terribly upset and worried over going through it all alone...though my kids will be there its still not the same as your spouse being there. So i am going through some serious depression right now..i dont know if things will get worked out or not but it doesn't seem to be that way right now..right now i feel betrayed and all alone.
Thanks again...love ya and will be back soon as i can...(i try to leave updates every now and again on my board for everyone to come read)
… I'm so sorry to hear about you and hubby splitting up! That is never easy to deal with. I hope things work out for you and that it's not long before you are feeling better.
… God Sneaky, that is terrible for you to have to deal with at this time in your life. My continued prayers and good wishes are going out to you double time.
Re: Chain of Love for Sneaky >> But now im suffering through a serious family crisis (Hubby left me..couldn't take anymore) I'm really upset and depressed so it may take a bit longer for me to start getting around the boards again.
Sneaky I generally say the wrong thing when I hear about tragedies like this, and I may put my foot in my mouth again, but I only mean to help. Many people are week and selfish; in a relationship its all about them and you serving their needs - they don't want it to be the other way around. A little anger might be a good thing, because you deserve better than to be abandoned when you are fighting for your life. I guess I'm trying to say, look for the silver lining in this because maybe you will decide you are better off without a guy who is capable of that. Grieving will only sap your energy, and in my (possibly unfair) opinion, he isn't worth it.
Okay, I'll shut up now and I'm sorry if I caused offence.