quietmousie
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Once again...
As most of you know, it’s been a rough 6 months for Nathan and me. We separated and he moved out towards the end of March, I found out I was pregnant in the middle of April and he moved back in the middle of June. Well it looks like he is going to be moving back out this coming weekend. Things haven’t been quite the same and he feels like he moved back home for the wrong reasons. I can understand where he’s coming from, but wish it could be different. We haven’t talked about divorce (I did ask him why he hadn’t mentioned it when he moved out before and he said he’s not ready to take that step). And he’s going to help me out as much as he can, money wise and with the baby. He also said he’d help me get the house ready to sell; I don’t need all this space for me and the baby and really don’t want to stay in “our” house without him anyways. I know it’s in everyone’s best interest (since we are going to have a child together) to stay friends and as much as I’d like to be able to tell him to get completely out of my life (not really cause he’s one of my best friends, but so I can move on and find some semblance of a life on my own), I can’t. So, once again, I just need your thoughts and prayers that everything works out and I can make it through this without getting too upset since it won’t be good for the baby.
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8/11/2008, 12:08 pm
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Blue Jeanz
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Oh Felicia, I'm so sorry to hear that. As hard as it sounds now, it isn't impossible to raise a child as a single mom, I know so many who did and do, and I did for several years too. You are right to remain friendly with Nathan, your baby will need to know her father and tension in that area is never a good thing. Get along as best you can with him and concentrate on doing what's right for YOU and what's right for THE BABY. If you feel you need to move that do it, if not then don't let him talk you into it. If he moves out then do the right thing by your child and file with the courts for child support. DO NOT allow him to talk you out of that one by him saying "I'll take care of you....blah blah blah." Been there, done that. They get away with paying nothing and doing nothing. Screw that. Get what your baby deserves, monetary support. Okay, sorry, you did ask for our thoughts....now you will get my prayers too! Best of luck darlin' and all the hugs I can give you across cyberspace too. (((((((Felicia))))))))
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8/11/2008, 1:48 pm
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Hon I just gotta tell you - you have the cutest darn siggies I've ever seen! And each time you post there is a different one! So cool!
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