Dearest Poiline! Here is a note I sent to my Sister asking her advice. I would like another womans opinion so all Moongals can pipe in, the Moonstuds as well.
Dear Tina Ruth:
Your ex Sis in Law musta figured I was well enough to start getting stuff after I asked for Daddies Christmas presents that he never got to open the year he died. They have been at her house (Her Mothers House) these last 16 years! . She had Lucas bring her 3 of her paintings off the wall. Randi said her Mama does want her plates but did not want to say it as it might throw me into a funk. I told the girls I wanted to pack her plates and stuff up months ago but they said I was just being mean. Eddie has suggested even back during the seperation that I needed to pack all the stuff up. You have told me this as well.
I told the girls I don't mind her wanting her stuff, I just didn't want to see a blue pick up over here picking it up one day so I wanted to get it gone already. Before the hag said she had no room to put the stuff and that we could pack it up and put it somewheres. I wonder if it would be tacky and look like a mind game if I put our wedding invitations and napkins in the box as well? I don't want them.
So far this morning I have dug up a few things including a Bible with her name on it that Billy and his Wife gave her for our wedding. I could also throw in the different guys phone numbers and addresses I found laying around. Think I'll keep the purple vibrator to give to the Grandkids one day.
Re: Dearest Poiline! or Clint Eastwood.
Clint philosophy will answer most of your questions
In this case there's a line from Heartbreak Ridge where he says,
"It's your will against mine, and you will lose."
Re: Dearest Poiline! Sorry..ratty...
So things aren't too bad for you..
throw all the things into bags..and have your kids drop them off to her...she doesn't come near you and you don't go near here..seems the simplist to me...
Re: Dearest Poiline! The kids took their Mother two of the toters I put most of her plates in. She said to tell me thanks for packing them so carefully. Kindest thing she has said to me in 15 years. I have about 5 more toters full of her shat with more to go. Maybe she can store them at the new studs house, I really don't give a damn, about anything!
