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TopfreeMike04
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I noticed lately that many of my posts have been ignored or deleted. I know that some people dont feel inclined to reply but it just seems kind of rude that nobody seems to notice what I say. I realize not everyone agrees with my point of view but it would still be nice to hear other people's input. Anyways I just wanted to make everyone aware of that.
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7/10/2008, 1:54 pm
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tinlizzievikingfan
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and we will coninue to ignore you...i would have thought that you got the message...actully you did....stay away!!
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7/10/2008, 4:55 pm
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I will reply to this one.
You are reaping what you have sown.
You have demonstrated since the beginning of this year a marked tendency to pontificate about what you think others should do, how they should be on the bleeding edge of social change, and yet you admitted that you haven't the courage to do such things yourself. People DO NOT respect such a position and they don't respect the person who takes it.
IF you want to start being treated as part of the group then you have to start behaving with more humility and descretion and thoughtfulness than you have displayed so far.
You made this bed Mike, you lay in it.
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7/10/2008, 5:03 pm
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TopfreeMike04
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You have demonstrated since the beginning of this year a marked tendency to pontificate about what you think others should do, how they should be on the bleeding edge of social change, and yet you admitted that you haven't the courage to do such things yourself. People DO NOT respect such a position and they don't respect the person who takes it.
I simply think women should do what they beleive is right and society be damned. This has nothing to do with me.
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IF you want to start being treated as part of the group then you have to start behaving with more humility and descretion and thoughtfulness than you have displayed so far.
You mean letting people walk over me and leaving society the way it is with prudes and textiles telling women when they can and cant bare their chests. If I had my way topfreedom would already be legal in all 50 states. When it comes to women's rights I dont care if people in society dont like it or not.
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7/10/2008, 7:28 pm
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Mike how dare you of all people accuse people of being rude!
Indeed your lack of social skills makes it impossible to have an adult conversation with you. You are reaping what you sow. Get help!!! You need it! 
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7/10/2008, 11:04 pm
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TopfreeMike04
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Mike how dare you of all people accuse people of being rude!
Because the people who im accusing of being rude are hypocritical. They blame me for the very things they do themselves.
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Indeed your lack of social skills makes it impossible to have an adult conversation with you. You are reaping what you sow. Get help!!! You need it!
I can have adult conversations with people if they are willing to do the same with me. I dont want some psychologist talking down to me, thats not the kind of help I want.
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7/10/2008, 11:41 pm
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Mike, I'm attempting to make a helpful suggestion here. First I do not think you need "help", just time. The issue as I see it is one where, while your goals are laudable, the way you come on to people and the stances you take need a lot of polishing and in some cases outright modification. You appear to be on the extreme end of the male behavior spectrum. This isn't going to endear you to many people, especially women.
I would make the following suggestion. Buy a copy of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and read it. The book talks about the different ways that men and women approach relationships and communicate. I think, if you are open to the message, you will begin to see why many of your posts get people so upset with you. It'll not only help you here, but in general life as well (even if you don't think you need improving, LOLOLOL).
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7/11/2008, 3:02 am
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Only administrators, moderators, and authors can delete posts. I have not deleted any of anybody's to this point. Have these "deletions" without the author's knowledge actually happened?
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7/11/2008, 7:06 am
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Only administrators, moderators, and authors can delete posts. I have not deleted any of anybody's to this point. Have these "deletions" without the author's knowledge actually happened?
I realize that, im not saying anyone did delete my posts on here. All I know is some of the posts ive put in some of the threads I follow were gone soon after I added them. A few of them were a bit controversial in nature and thats why I thought they might have been purposely deleted by someone who doesnt agree my point of view but I have no proof of that. I just cant explain it. For all I know it was just some random thing that happened. I simply thought the moderators or admin should be made aware of it. Its been a while so I dont remember exactly which threads they were but they were ones I frequent often.
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7/11/2008, 6:49 pm
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TopfreeMike04 wrote:
[ I dont want some psychologist talking down to me, thats not the kind of help I want.
Who would? Getting help begins with knowing you need help.
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7/11/2008, 11:35 pm
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